Be the creator of your destiny

Nitu was undergoing a lot of struggles in her marriage. She was deeply hurt by her husband’s aggressive outbursts that led to verbal and physical violence. He is a well-educated man and otherwise a caring person.  It has been twenty years since this marriage. And this repetitive pattern was a constant. Another thing that troubled her was her husband’s close relationship with another woman. Ten years back, she accidentally came to know about their extramarital relationship, which was amended mutually, yet she is now a good friend. To date, she felt insecure about him being close to her. She felt weak to bring up this matter to discuss as any attempt on this matter just turned him aggressive, and defensive. And the hurt of feeling humiliated by his abusive behavior created further distance. They have a daughter and she did not wish to make any emotional decision about the marriage. She was feeling trapped in the marriage and lost all interest in life. She wanted to understand why did she attract such kind of challenge in her life and wanted to make an informed decision. And that’s when she decided to undergo a past life regression session for herself.

As she entered her past life, it was from 1602, in a village town in Gujarat. She was a very dynamic lady serving as a sarpanch of that village. A lady of principle, authoritative outside, something expected of a sarpanch. She was married and the man happened to be the same man as her husband of this life. She loved him and trusted him. However, he felt she was not a lady of his like, and he fell for someone – [same person of the current life]. He left her for the other women. When she came to know about their relationship, her heart broke.  She was a lady of value and integrity and she never expected her own husband to betray her.  Someone cheated her politically, plotted against her and she was jailed.  Her hurt from husband’s dejection was so deep, that she gave up on life and accepted the fate of imprisonment. She spent the rest of her life in prison sad and full of sorrow, not able to digest the fact that she was being betrayed by her husband. At age 70, she left her body in the prison. At the time of her death, her last feelings were sadness and sorrow of betrayal. She was very helpful and received respect in the prison and her body received the last rite respectfully. Her ex-husband and his wife attended the cremation rites.

Afterlife: In the room of the council, in the presence of her spirit guides, she realized her soul had decided to undergo betrayal to become stronger/mature along the path of its evolution. She had some past life debts to be repaid. In her previous life as a Buddhist monk, he misused his powers and cheated upon people.  When he realized this, he felt guilty and he committed suicide.

This made her realize in all three lives including the current, there were common auto repeats of:

1] Theme of Giving up on life

2] Power: either misusing or giving up

The PLR session made her realize that she has been carrying patterns of giving up on life and powers and that was a self-punishment to repay the debt of a life where she misused her powers. Her lesson was to forgive herself and come out of guilt. Her further insight about her husband and that woman was they were under the influence of tendencies of their past but they realized it and their lesson is to stay loyal to their respective families.  And Nitu was also told that she would not have to force herself to commit to the current relationship. Her soul seeks deeper connections with her partner, and if, that did not open up in the current marriage, she will be guided to make her decide. Her answers will come and she will have to learn patience. She was guided to make good use of her talents for service to humanity.  She was also revealed that as a part of redemptions, her husband and that lady will always be of big support to her irrespective of whichever path she takes.

And with this, all her questions were answered, and Nitu was safely guided back to here and Now.

After the session, Nitu took a sigh of great relief. For, she had discovered answers to her questions, and now she had mental clarity and felt empowered to make informed decisions. She knew she had to stay conscious not to give up on life and come to self-forgiveness and then use her talent for service to others.

As a journeying soul, when we incarnate from one life to the next, carrying our blueprint of current life, we are born with amnesia (loss of memory of the afterlife). Though a series of events and incidents are planned in our Afterlife to learn its due lessons, the soul usually has no memory whatsoever about this planning. The events and incidences are like an auto-repeat of what followed in one of the previous lives. Because of amnesia, we do not remember WHY we are facing the challenges, we unconsciously repeat everything that happened earlier and again invite consequences similar to our previous life which, is in its auto-repeat mode. This continues till we are put to awaken the memory, that awakens us to remember the purpose, that awakens us to make a conscious decision now, to change the course of events, break the auto-repeat patterns and its faced consequences. The unconscious then becomes conscious. One becomes empowered to choose wisely supported by inner convictions backed by inner guidance and insights received.  And that is how one can become a co-creator of one’s destiny!

Life is often a series of auto-repeat
governed by Inner and outer
Conditioning

leading to auto-repeat of consequences.
Until, one day Awakening happens.
Then,

one takes rein in their hand
to make conscious choices using their Free will
guided by inner and outer
Wisdom.

Urvi